Out of your league? Probably Not.

Yesterday, I tweeted this out in reference to the announcement that Birdman married Toni Braxton… If you ever feel like someone is "out of your league", look at this photo and feel emboldened https://t.co/KjtsBRTVEM — Demetrius (@DemetriusSays) October 17, 2017 ..and I got back an … Read moreOut of your league? Probably Not.

Don’t worry, you’re in the right place

If you’re reading this, odds are good you came here looking for Tao of Indifference. Or you went looking for dating advice, and landed here. Don’t worry, you’re in the right place. All the content you’ve loved, read, listened to, or happened upon because of … Read moreDon’t worry, you’re in the right place

I think I’m moving too fast. How do I fix it?

Recently, I was checking out a dating advice Reddit forum and came across a post which I thought posed an interesting dilemma. It asked a question that seemed pretty relatable, so I wanted to answer it. Full disclosure, I’ve edited the question for clarity and … Read moreI think I’m moving too fast. How do I fix it?

When people show you what they are, believe them

Some people are good at masking what they are. They hide behind lies and well-crafted personas to present to the world a palatable version of themselves. Others hide what they are by gas-lighting, using coded language, or simply denying the truth about themselves or their … Read moreWhen people show you what they are, believe them

How can you tell if a dating app is worth it?

My opinions on dating apps and sites should be clear by this point, but if they’re not, let me just be crystal clear. I think that online dating, in general, is worth it. The value that people take from it on a person to person … Read moreHow can you tell if a dating app is worth it?

Do you have to be cold to succeed in dating?

Do you have to be cold to succeed in dating? Is the secret to dating success to take a cold, emotionless, logical and pragmatic view of dating and relationships? No, no I don’t think so. I think that there are scenarios where it pays to … Read moreDo you have to be cold to succeed in dating?

Why do we take rejections so personally?

Why do we take rejections so personally? A while ago I went on a few dates, maybe 5 in total, with someone who I thought I clicked with. Lots of overlaps with interests, dating goals, and life goals. I told friends about her, she told … Read moreWhy do we take rejections so personally?