Dating mistakes I’ve made so you don’t have to

I really, really, don’t like to call myself a “dating expert”. That’s not to say that I disagree with the idea that there are experts when it comes to dating, relationships, sex, and anything else that falls broadly into how humans partner with people, I … Read moreDating mistakes I’ve made so you don’t have to

How do you keep conversations flowing?

Good conversation can be a great indicator of chemistry. If the conversation flows, you tend to be more comfortable with a person. Stilted conversation has the opposite effect. So what can you do to get more comfortable having conversations? How do you keep conversations flowing? … Read moreHow do you keep conversations flowing?

When is a relationship worth fighting for?

I believe that all relationships take work. Even the most amenable couples in the world have some work they put into their relationships. Some relationships need work with communication, getting over past mistakes, getting on the same page about finances, and so on. All relationships … Read moreWhen is a relationship worth fighting for?

What happens when the person you’ve built up in your head lets you down?

What happens when the person you’ve built up in your head lets you down? You’ve met someone, and they seem amazing. They’re perfect, they’re incredible, they’re everything you’ve ever wanted. Now they’re gone. Now you’re sitting there wondering how you could be so wrong. How … Read moreWhat happens when the person you’ve built up in your head lets you down?

Out of your league? Probably Not.

Yesterday, I tweeted this out in reference to the announcement that Birdman married Toni Braxton… If you ever feel like someone is "out of your league", look at this photo and feel emboldened https://t.co/KjtsBRTVEM — Demetrius (@DemetriusSays) October 17, 2017 ..and I got back an … Read moreOut of your league? Probably Not.

Don’t worry, you’re in the right place

If you’re reading this, odds are good you came here looking for Tao of Indifference. Or you went looking for dating advice, and landed here. Don’t worry, you’re in the right place. All the content you’ve loved, read, listened to, or happened upon because of … Read moreDon’t worry, you’re in the right place

I think I’m moving too fast. How do I fix it?

Recently, I was checking out a dating advice Reddit forum and came across a post which I thought posed an interesting dilemma. It asked a question that seemed pretty relatable, so I wanted to answer it. Full disclosure, I’ve edited the question for clarity and … Read moreI think I’m moving too fast. How do I fix it?

When people show you what they are, believe them

Some people are good at masking what they are. They hide behind lies and well-crafted personas to present to the world a palatable version of themselves. Others hide what they are by gas-lighting, using coded language, or simply denying the truth about themselves or their … Read moreWhen people show you what they are, believe them